"When you follow your bliss, doors will open for you that wouldn't have opened for anyone else"
I have lived an extraordinary life.
Vital Touch is the professional platform I use
to share the wealth of my talents,
skills, experience, teachings and learnings
to enrich the lives of others.
It is also a space
to encourage others
to value their precious life
as I have learnt to cherish mine and
the awesome life woven through everything.
When I was little, my kindergarten teacher asked me what I wanted to be when I grew up. I answered emphatically that I wanted to be a tree.
I have spent a lot of time with trees. I love the strength of them, their patient acceptance of the seasons, the abundance of life they support.
I still want to be a tree when I grow up!
The truth is, my life purpose has changed so many times and I suspect will do so again.
As far as job-career purpose goes, I have been a teacher of Drama and English to agonised, gawky, blossoming adolescents.
I have been an organic farmer, a permaculturalist writing a textbook for tertiary level students to support them in becoming farmers and also doing the hard land graft of caring for a homestead by tending a coffee plantation and producing flowers, fruit and vegetables for a local box scheme.
In Findhorn, an intentional community in the northeast of Scotland I have been a chef, a fundraiser, an administrator, a journalist and gained various skills in marketing.
Now, as a full time, self -employed Complementary Therapist , I am learning how to weave the many tasks of running and promoting a business, meeting my clients with the care and attention they deserve and continuing to hone and develop my curiosity and skills in the field of somatic based personal development and menstrual Cycle Awareness.
In my personal life I have been many roles too: daughter, sister, wife, mother, ex-wife, partner, friend.
I am also a life long student (some would say nerd!), a lover of life (some would say hippy) and an activist for bringing about a world of loving kindness (hippy again!).
I am the sum total of all these parts.
Everything I have experienced has become me and I use these skills, tools, knowledge and knowing, to support my clients as they explore the possibility of creating a quality of life and potentising purpose for themselves.
What is the purpose of Vital Touch Therapies?
To support and nurture people, one person at a time, to face, accept and transform the challenges they face in their lives in order to create a quality of life that is meaningful and kind to themselves, their dear pones and the web of life.
I came to the practice of Complementary Therapy through necessity. I was at a time of life when all I thought I had wanted and all that I knew had dissolved. I too was dissintegrating. I needed to find something to return me to a sense of stability, purpose and possibility- a foundation that was truely my own from which I could build my life afresh.
It was through Reiki, I began to find the pieces I needed to not only heal the rifts and wounds in me, I was also able to recreate an identity and lifestyle that were more aligned with what motivates and inspires me.
So profound is the practice of Reiki, that even now, I still begin each day with a personal treatment and use it in my daily life from blessing food to watering plants.
The potent, energetic nature of Reiki sparked my curiosity and I was further inspired to enroll on an online course in Metaphysical Counselling.
I received my masters degree after learning about the mysteries of the chakras, our physical and energetic bodies, the power of intention, the wisdom of guides and the magic of ceremony. I use this knowledge extensively yet quietly woven within the treatments I offer.
I came to Lomi-Lomi Massage when I was inspired to engage with a practice that incorporated nurturing touch.
I was delighted to discover this ancient tool that incorporates long flowing strokes with the power of the breath and held within sacred ceremony. For the practitioner, it is almost dancelike and for those who receive, it is a profoundly relaxing, expansive and effective massage style.
I find the lomi-lomi massage is a profound method of opening my clients to feeling into their body. It is a method that enables you to read signs, symptoms and sensations as vital information that can help shape your choices, sense into the possibilities of feeling differently about yourself and/or the world and most importantly to unashamedly, devoutly cherish the gift of being embodied.
In 2011, I attended the Conscious Medicine Conference at the Findhorn Foundation.
I was pleasantly surprised to discover a wave of dedicated health practitioners from both the medical and complementary fields. These professionals were committed to bringing about a new form of medicine that integrates both fields in order to treat patients and to develop a more proactive health system, based on promoting well being and not only treating ill health.
A seed was sown in me and since then I have made various life changes in order to support bringing about an integrated medical system.
In response I enrolled in and completed my Higher National Diploma (HND) in Complementary Therapy at Elgin College, a campus of the University of the Highlands and Islands.
I also gained knowledge in Anatomy and Physiology, Pathology, Health and Safety, Research and Methodology, Professional Issues, Stress Management, Lifestyles etc.
It was an enriching, challenging time and put me firmly on the way to mastering the art of Complementary Therapy. I am competant and confident in my ability to understand the require,emnts and language of the health sector and willing to work alongside my fellow collegues to bring about a more proactive way of engaging with our health- people and planet.
In 2013, I moved to Berkhamsted in Hertfordshire and am now thoroughly enjoying all aspects of holding Vital Touch Therapies as a full time practitioner.
Since then I have specialised in providing hormonal protocols in Reflexology to help support people with numerous hormonal issues and to offer women care throughout their pregnancy journey.
I admit, I have a fascination with the hormonal system. l have qualified as a Doula, but don't practice as one. Instead, I use this experience in Doularship to support my pregnant ladies.
I have also committed myself to mastering the emerging field of Menstrual Cycle Awareness. I now hold mini-workshops on Cycle Awareness and Menopause, bringing the potential power and freedom of this simple practice into the lives of women of all ages.
I am now, also enrolled on a Cognitive Behaviorial Therapy course to deepen in the skills of counselling and mentoring people who may need the insights and skills to transform their disruptive, destabalising and disturbing thoughts.
I am amazed at the profound experiences most of my clients receive through my treatments and feel so blessed to be offering something that is both nourishing and effective.
Each client is a teacher, inspiring me to meet their individual needs physical, emotional and mental.
I continue to develop my skills and experience as a Complementary Therapist, guided by them, my curiosity and my passion to bring a sense of well being to the lives of all whom I touch.
I was born in Durban, South Africa- a sub-tropical harbour city on 14th July 1969.
I couldn't escape it! The coincidence of being born on Bastille Day and the last year of the decade of love, were to set the tone for the rest of my life. The values of the French Revolution of liberty, equality and community and living life with a passion and exuberance of the summer of love have been keynotes throughout my life.
Both my parents were involved in the dramatic arts. My father was British, my mother South African. They met at the London Laban School of movement and when my mother completed her scholarship there, my father followed her back to her home country, where they settled and married.
I am the first born and the eldest of 3 daughters.
The family moved to Johannesburg in the early1970s and whilst the horrors of Sharpeville and the revolution against Apartheid were raging, I was living blissfully unaware of the struggle, cacooned in my white suburb.
I started my schooling the same year my last sister was born, discovering a love of writing, colouring outside the lines and often scolded for having 'ants in my pants' when the longing in me to go outside made me fidget.
We returned again to Durban when I was a teenager in the 1980s and it was from this city that a grew my fledgling wings by completing my schooling, enrolling at university, getting my first car, my first job and of course, falling in and out of intimate relationship.
My first marriage gifted me with my adopted daughter and my biological son. I also learnt through this marriage how to recognise, name and move away from some destructive behaviors.
What followed was a time of brutal yet necessary separation from all I had known - family, friends, my work and also my children.
It was a time to take responsibility for my own actions, the part I had played in the madness of an abusive relationship.
Through a deep faith in the value of my life and strong doses of courage, I began to reshape myself and my life on my own terms. I faced the dark Night of the Soul, unravelled, vulnerable and yet fortified by a sense of potential and freedom.
It was here I came to Reiki and Permaculture. Together, these practices bought me home, to the earth beneath my feet and the ground within my body.
The wounding of this time continues to haunt my relationships with my family and my children and also with myself. I have learnt to bear these scars with humility and pride.
It was not plain sailing thereafter. I have had the opportunity to learn from the same mistakes (but differently)- again!
I have had 7 great intimate relationships in my life. Each of them have been profound teachers. My Dark Angels have thrown light on my shadows and tested me every time.
"How deeply do you love yourself?", they say.
I have learnt to look myself in the eye and feel the expanding presence of my love for myself. Through my self love, I touch into the love at the heart of all life - and that is everything and enough.
I now find myself, wiser, worn by the rich experiences of life well met. I continue to be opened up to the rich and worthwhile teachings of what it means to be me.
I am now dancing and resting in the generous embrace of my third marriage.
I am confident in my ability to be a good partner, a fine friend, a kind, compassionate, brave person.
It has been a winding journey. (No doubt it will continue to twist and turn).
As far as the school of hard knocks goes, I have been a slow learner. On the list of traumatic experiences I tick a lot of boxes.
Some of these experiences I had no control over, but I have been responsible for choosing others.
As a young adult I was rebellious, reckless with my heart, mistaking careless experimentation for adventure.
I wounded myself by making choices that were both innocent and ignorant.
It is easy to forgive the young woman who didn't know any better, but how do you face up to the mistakes you made, again and again? The ones that cut so deep they bled into the lives of others?
My story of thrivival is testimony to how you can stumble, trip and fall- sometimes along the same path and also into the same hole, and still get up again. Not just get up, but learn how to soar.
I have learnt how to use these experiences of trauma to shape the person I am now and to create a lifestyle that is nurturing, inspiring, empowered and compassionate.
I am more than a survivor, I am a thrivivor- willing to shine my light into the darkness and show others a way that not only embraces but cherishes that which was broken.
As a busy working mum, one thing I seem to have little time for is myself and my own well-being. Being able to create a time and space with Lisa to receive that healing touch which she always gives in a way that is exactly what I need has meant that I feel cared for so deeply and then revitalizes me to return to my family refreshed and renewed after each session.